An Account of Surprising Kindness: The Time a Student Let Me Sleep on Her Dormitory Floor
During 2006, My journey took me to the Australian capital for an interview at a medical college. I figured I would book a place to stay after getting there, however once I got there, a major event was in town and every single backpackers hostels and affordable lodging were fully booked.
As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, I considered perhaps I could spend the night at the terminal – but soon learned that airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, closes all night. With no idea what my next move should be and feeling increasingly desperate, I hopped on a city-bound bus and started wandering towards the casino, believing I might spend the night in an establishment that was open through the night. That wouldn’t put me at my peak to succeed at a crucial interview the following day, however, being a student on a tight budget, luxury accommodation was impossible.
Our society requires more folks like that woman.
Apparently, I appeared confused as a young woman noticed me loitering in downtown and asked whether I needed help. I recounted my situation and without hesitation she said I could sleep on the ground at her university residence at the local university – which was perfect, given that my my interview was scheduled for the next day. Generously, she also provided a meal: one of the stuffed baguettes she had taken home her work shift. This gave me warm shower facilities and a protected spot and safe to spend the night.
With hindsight, I now understand what a big chance she took being a woman allowing a man she’d just met stay in her room. Back then I operated under my male privilege bubble and did not consider about things like that. Today, as a parent, it astounds me she took that chance – yet deeply appreciative.
I didn’t end up go to the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet her again, but I’ve never forgotten her amazing act of human compassion. My sincere desire is that the universe has rewarded her good deed many times over. Our society requires more folks who show such kindness.